Dear Cyn,
When people break up, they talk about how to split the couch, the cats, the CDs. But you never really hear about: how to split the hangouts, the music venues, art galleries, restaurants, bars? Who gets the Turf Club in the breakup? What's proper etiquette, if any, when you think you gotta see a show at your ex's fave digs when you know it'll cause them pain? How do you act when you plow through and go there? Should you be dismayed if she throws a drink in your face?
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